Tales From My 40's...So Far!

My adult life can be seperated quite distinctly by the various decades...
My 20's were taken up by learning the harsh realities of life; a mortgage; domestic bliss (not!); a loveless relationship; bills, debts and all the encompassing trials & tribulations etc..
My 30's were all about rediscovering my independence and getting on with my life; by relocating time-and-time again, and just generally finding a place where I felt I could belong.
And my 40's were/are a complete mixed bag, full of highs 'n' lows, ups 'n' downs...

I celebrated my 40th birthday amongst friends in Ireland (pictured).
It wasn't a big party, but I used the occassion to get a lot of my Irish pals together, and had a few English mates fly over with me too.
We hired a massive house out for the weekend in a beautiful little fishing village called Ring, situated in West Cork, and much fun was had by all.
The rest of that year was taken up with my planning for the future, saving hard and making good a wish to move to a place I had longed fancied living in - Cheltenham.
I spent seven very happy months living in the swanky part of the town called Montpelier, and enjoyed a great lifestyle for a while.

My 41st birthday preceeded my first visit to the wonder that is New Zealand...and that pretty much took up the first part of that year, as a second trip followed shortly afterwards.
The rest of that year was a real downer; events which I have written about already, but hope sprang eternal on my 42nd birthday.
Reaching 42 was a fresh start, as on my birthday I received a job offer, and I finally began the process of consolidating all my finances enabling me to move on with my life. This took up much of the following year, so it wasn't until I hit the ripe old age off 44 that my next target came into focus, which was to get my own place once again.
Finally, I achieved this in August of this year - my first apartment for four years, and this made me a very happy man.

As to now and the present at the ripe old age of 45 ~ well, what can I say...

"Some of us want a fast car, some of us want to stand and gaze.
 Some of us pine for the great outdoors, some of us won't leave the house for days.
 Some of us have died for their freedom, some are quite happy in the cage.
 Some think a wild time is what they want at night,
 But freedom to sleep would be complete delight..."

At 45 I find myself like this...
I'm a happy-go-lucky, optimistic, hopeless romantic who has finally fallen on my feet :)
I don't want much in life; maybe a cure for my insomnia would be nice!
I only ever had a few ambitions and dreams, and I know that I've been fortunate to realise them.
This series of blogs is supposed to concentrate on some of my personal stories, but although I could regale some tales it would go against the principle that I hold dear...which is gentlemen never 'kiss-and-tell', because most of my potential stories from my 40's would involve one lady or another! Lol.
This decade so far has involved some romance, but essentially I have loved and lost (literally).
The other subject matter which has dominated my 40's has been my adventures in New Zealand...but I think I've exhausted these stories now.
Moving home to a lovely apartment in a peaceful part of town (Chichester) has proved to be the perfect tonic for me at this time of my life.
It resembles a fresh start, so life is indeed very good.
After a couple of minor heartbreaks and setbacks, I've come to the conclusion that it's probably best for me to remain an eligible batchelor, and the fact that for once I've actually got some money in my wallet is a wonderful feeling which allows me to enjoy an even happier lifestyle.
Many thanks to my mates for enriching me with an active social life, and much gratitude is sent to all my friends who I'm fortunate to enjoy some lunchtimes with, where we can share a laugh and a smile...you all contribute in making me a very happy fella!
Also special thanks to three friends who have always been there for me, no matter where they actually live:
Elona, Trace, and The TWL!♥

So at the risk of disappointing you, it's time to bid you all fareful for 2012.
Due to a current heavy workload and a busy schedule over the forthcoming festive season, this will be my last blog until the New Year...but may I wish you all a wonderful Christmas & thank you for all of your continual support.

Peace to you all ♥

Steve M





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